Show Others How To Love You
Just decide to BE the woman you have always known you could be.
You get to decide the person you want to be. If you don’t like who you are or how the world sees you, change it. Yes, it is that simple.
You are worth the effort - just take the chance!
When you change yourself, things around you change.
Your attitude affects everything and everyone around you.
When you make changes to better your life, everything around you will reflect those changes.
Others learn how to love you by watching the way you love yourself.
Treat yourself like you would someone you love. When the world sees the way you love yourself, they will start loving you too.
Think about it, why would people make the effort to be loving towards you if you can’t do that for yourself?
Your soul knows that you’re good enough.
Every time you doubt yourself, take a few deep breaths and listen to your intuition, that gut feeling that tells you that you deserve more than you’ve been getting. Then, give yourself what you need.
You can’t expect others to do it for you. Believing in yourself is your responsibility.
You have nothing to prove to anyone else. You are enough.
Trying to prove yourself to someone else is like going off of the high diving board when you don’t know how to swim. Just because they want you to jump doesn’t mean you should.
Until diving is something you are ready to do, it’s just going to end badly.
Learn to swim in your own time.
Self-love is not selfish; it’s self-acceptance.
The speech you get from flight attendants says that you have to put your own mask on before you can take care of others. You can’t take care of someone else if you aren’t healthy enough to do so.
Remember that you are important, you are loved, you are amazing.
Now, show the world how to love you!
Treat yourself the way you would treat any friend.
Most of us have issues with this. We beat ourselves up for things we can’t control. We try to change someone else. We make decisions we regret.
Stop and think about these things for a minute. What advice would you give your friend if she came to you with these problems?
See, you already know how to fix it!
No light comes from an empty lantern. Self-care provides you with the fuel needed to let your light shine.
When you take care of yourself, you fill the fuel in your soul.
When you fill your soul with light, it shines like a beacon for the world to see.
Be the light and shine on, my friend!
It is never selfish to do what is best for you.
Don’t live your life for other people. Be true to yourself and do what’s right for you.
Listen to you intuition. It’s always right!
Be careful how you speak to yourself because you are listening.
When you tell yourself that you aren’t good enough, guess what…you don’t feel good enough.
When you tell yourself that you’re freaking awesome, you ARE freaking awesome!
Your mind and your body listen to the things you tell yourself - that’s called a mindset. Change your mindset and your whole world changes!
Confidence begins when you realize that you are important and you will not settle for less.
In this huge family, a little girl kept getting lost in the crowd. She wasn’t anything special; she was just one of the kids. When she talked, nobody really listened because there were way too many kids to listen to. Her confidence was shaken and her self-esteem took a nose-dive. She was not important, she was not special, she was just there.
One day she really needed her voice to be heard, so she talked louder, she got into their faces, and found the confidence she never knew she had. Now that her voice has been heard, she would not allow them to silence her again!
This type of confidence grows when you realize you are worth their time and effort. Never settle!
